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The Importance of Loving Yourself Loving yourself is not as easy as hating yourself, isn't it?  We hate ourselves more often than we love ourselves, loving ourselves is sometimes not as easy as it is sounds. Indeed, we may face some obstacles when we think about loving ourselves. For example, sometimes we compare ourselves with others. But hey! Do you know the quote that says,  "Do not compare yourself to others. Be like the sun and the moon, and shine when it's your time"?  It means that even the sun and the moon have their own time to shine. So, start believing that the path of every human being varies. Ok, so why do you think Self-Love is so Important?  As far as I’m concerned, self-love is the foundation for helping people stand up for themselves, pursue their dreams, feel proud of what they have achieved, and establish healthy relationships with others.  Self-love is a way to love ourselves by accepting all the conditions within us.  A self-love phase,...

  What is Productivity? The meaning of productive for everyone is different, people in general, do not have the same routine every day, some feel that just reading one book is already productive or there are some who interpret it even more. let's find out! Most people define productivity as getting more things done in a shorter amount of time but that definition is kinda wrong, why? because if that's the way you think it can put too much emphasis on quantity and not enough on quality. One of my favorite quotes says: "Don't be busy, be productive". We can see that actually, the best way to define "productivity" is about getting the right things done not just about getting more things done. Productive Life or A Busy Life? There are several things that can distinguish between busy and productive people that we need to know: 1. Purpose Busy people tend to have no purpose. A busy person takes many steps to find the best for himself. While productive people ar...

The Hating Feeling Hating someone is a natural feeling. Do you ever felt hating someone that much with or without reason?  Hating someone with a reason is more making sense than there isn't any reason. We don't know why but sometimes we can hating someone in the first impression.  In my religion, we are advised not to hate each other because hate is like a poison, poison of our heart that can be stay and taken our heart also it would be trigger badness. As Alloh SWT says in Qur'an surat al-Hujurat 49:10  "Indeed, the believers are brothers, so make peace between your two brothers, and fear Allah, so that you may receive mercy." That proves if hating feeling such forbidden things, even if it is a natural human emotion but we shouldn't be preserved.  Let's take a look at the science side, why are we hating others?  Some researchers believe all people have the capacity to hate, while others believe true hatred is uncommon. What does seem c...

Which is Better Between Audiobook vs Reading a Book? Did you ever listen to the audiobook that you like or did you even just try to see if it matches you or not?  Audiobooks are used as an alternative to reading a book lately, in the opinion of some people audiobooks are very helpful and accessible especially for those who have a busy life. In this modern era, many people don't take the time to read books because we should realize that the world is increasingly advanced. Nevertheless, it led to some arguments and debates between the two of them.  The Brief History of Audiobook Thomas Alva Edison with his second phonograph It started when Thomas Alva Edison in 1877 invented the phonograph and made a recording of words, The recordings using phonographs are called phonographic books, with the first trial using Edison's voice. Then in 1878, conducted a demo recording at the Royal Institution in England which marked the beginning of recording technology related to literature. ...